You were never broken.
You were just built for more
than the system gave you.
Beyond Sober is what I built when traditional recovery stopped working. Identity-first. Anti-shame. Pro-truth. For the ones who already stopped drinking — and are still waiting to feel free. Six years in. 20,126+ humans through the body of work. Year seven starts with you.
6 years of Beyond Sober. Year seven starts now.
Six years ago today, Beyond Sober opened its doors with one founder, one survivor, and one promise: nobody who walks in here gets shamed for being human. Today it's nearly 20,126 humans deep, three books on the shelf, and the biology research Bill Wilson never got to finish has finally been written down.
Same mission. Bigger movement. Year seven, let's go.
I didn't survive to tell my story.
I survived so you'd have a different one.
Stage 4 cirrhosis. Liver failure. Cardiac arrest on the surgery table. They told my family to start preparing.
Rolled out of the hospital in a wheelchair. Couldn't walk for months. Same liver. Healed. Nine years later.
I'm not telling you this to impress you. I'm telling you because I'm the architect of a system that worked on the only test subject I had — me. And then 20,126 more.
Before · 2017
200 lbs walking in. 142 lbs walking out. Seven days to live.
After · 2026
Same liver. Healed. Stage 4 cirrhosis is supposed to be terminal. It isn't.
You don't have a drinking problem.
You have an identity problem.
You stopped drinking. You did the work. And something is still off. You're not crazy. You're not weak. You weren't broken in the first place.
You don't have a drinking problem.
You have a nervous system that learned alcohol = relief.
You have a story you've been telling yourself about who you are.
You have a body that's been running on fumes.
You have a version of you that's been trying to come home.
You're not addicted. You're delayed.
And alcohol was doing
a really good job
of helping you skip the parts of you that hurt the most.
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TherapyHelpful for the story. Useless for the identity. Your therapist isn't allowed to ask why you don't recognize yourself in the mirror.
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AA / 12-StepSaved a lot of lives. Wasn't built for yours. Your nervous system isn't a moral failure. It's a system that didn't get fed the right things.
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Sober Already, Still Not FreeYou stopped drinking. The depression, anxiety, exhaustion stayed. of you said this directly in the scan. This is exactly who Beyond Sober was built for.
Happy people don't sabotage themselves.
Read it again. Slower.
Happy people. Don't. Sabotage. Themselves.
The recovery industry was built on managing the sabotage. Beyond Sober was built to end the conditions that cause it.
Three principles. Read them slow.
You weren't broken. You were coping. There's a difference. We're not going to spend the next six weeks reminding you of the worst version of yourself.
We don't sell you a label that lasts a lifetime. We don't make you say "I'm an alcoholic" before breakfast. The truth is more useful than the script.
Sobriety isn't the goal. You are. When you fix the identity, the drinking handles itself.
The recovery industry makes billions by keeping you sick.
Every other program either doesn't have the information, or has it and won't tell you. Watch this before you decide anything. No background music. No edits trying to convince you. Just me, talking to you, putting the case on the table.
I'll see you on the inside.
You'll recognize yourself
in at least one of them.
3,277 humans sat down at 2am and typed out what they were actually feeling. The same answer kept coming back, in different forms. If one of these lands like it came out of your own head, that's the signal. You're not alone in there.
I miss myself. The real me. The one I haven't seen in a long time.
Fixing my nervous system and rebuilding my identity from the ground up.
I stopped drinking and the depression stayed.
"Sobriety didn't fix the underlying."
If that's been your experience too, you're exactly who I built this for.
You've been thinking about this for years.
Today, the door is open.
Reading the captions. Bookmarking the videos. Closing the tabs.
Promising yourself "next month." Then "after the holiday." Then "once things calm down."
You've been ready the whole time.
You weren't waiting for the right moment. You were waiting for permission.
Here it is.
Doesn't matter if you've never tried anything before, or if you've tried everything. Whether you're still drinking, just stopped, or sober for years and still don't feel free — this is the work that meets you where you are. You're not late. You're right on time.
I record every session like we're already on a Zoom together. "Hey, grab your water. I'll wait." By the time we meet for your check-in call, you'll already feel like we've been working together for a week. Because we have.
The actual work.
Six weeks. Six identity shifts. Same trajectory I walked. Same trajectory 15,065+ have walked since.
Radical Acceptance
This might be the only week you actually need. I'll teach you not to give a fuck. The second you stop fighting yourself, you stop having a reason to drink.
Dissolving Bad Habits
You don't have a drinking problem. You have a nervous system that learned alcohol = relief. We teach it something better. Not by force. By biology.
New Healthy Habits
Willpower runs out. Identity doesn't. When the new habits feel like who you ARE instead of what you're doing, they stop being a fight.
Rewriting Your Story
You stop being the victim of your history and start being the author of what comes next. Same facts. Different story. Different future.
10X Your Success
You stop running from the pain and start running toward something real. The acceleration phase. Your life doesn't even look the same.
Live Beyond Sobriety
Sobriety stops being a sacrifice. It becomes an upgrade. Recovery isn't the goal. Recovery is the after-party.
Stop counting the days. Make the days count.
4That's how long it actually takes to get sober.
Four days for your body to clear alcohol. Four days for your nervous system to come back online. Four days. Not four years. Not forever. The science is settled. Your liver handles it. Your blood chemistry handles it. Your brain handles it. By Day 4, you are clinically sober.
Beyond Sober isn't about getting sober. You'll be sober by Friday. Beyond Sober is about who you become after Day 4.
Identity. Nervous system. Story. The version of you that doesn't need to get sober ever again — because you stopped being the person who needed to.
Sobriety is a side effect. Self-respect is the program.
It's tattooed on my hands.
Not for me. For you.
Don't count the days.
Make the days count.
What you actually unlock when you walk in.
This isn't a course. It's the entire library, the community, the books, the support, and the next program waiting for you on graduation day. Every membership funds a free one for someone who can't afford it. Welcome to the superstore.
- The full 6-week Beyond Sober program — 12.5 hours of breakthrough teaching
- 6 Transformation Frameworks — the architecture beneath every session
- Beyond Sober digital workbook — the program in print, $14.99 retail, free with membership
- Hella Healthy biology book (digital) — 500+ pages, $34 retail, the science underneath everything, free with membership
- Lifetime access — learn at your own pace, return whenever
- Private 1-on-1 with Kohdi — 30 minutes, just you and me
- Mid-journey check-in call — when most people stall, we recalibrate
- Graduation mentorship hour — you walk out with a plan for what's next
- Weekly accountability + email support — direct line, every week
- Beyond Sober Nation — 46,975+ members and growing daily, the public movement
- Private Beyond Sober community — 3,055+ members, member-only access, direct conversations
- The Rewired Vault — bonus workshops, exercises, integration tools
- 25 Recovery eBooks + Affirmations Library — included free
Two programs in one.
You graduate Beyond Sober → you walk straight into Unlabeled Recovery.
When you complete Beyond Sober, Unlabeled Recovery unlocks automatically. The next-level identity work for those ready to graduate the recovery label entirely. Same membership. Same $149. Two complete programs.
Beyond Sober rebuilds the identity. Unlabeled Recovery removes the last identity that was still holding you back: "in recovery." You don't graduate sober. You graduate free.
Total real value: $3,491
Plus Unlabeled Recovery on graduation.
Six days in rehab: $6,000 — and you'd come out the same person.
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$149 One time. Lifetime access. Both programs.
7-day free trial. No pressure. No shame. No risk.
7-Day Free Trial · No Risk · Lifetime Access
If it doesn't shift you in 7 days, you don't pay.
No fine print. No hoops to jump through. If the work doesn't change how you see yourself within the first 7 days, the trial ends and you walk away. Keep the guide. Keep the books. Keep the community access. The door stays open.
I don't want you in here forever.
I want you so free that you forget this place exists.
The success of this program isn't measured by how long you stay. It's measured by how fast you no longer need it. When something clicks for you, I want you to put the book down, log out of the program, walk away from the community, and go live your fucking life.
This isn't a subscription trap. It's a doorway. Walk in, get what you need, walk out. Come back if you ever feel yourself veering off course. That's it.
Every paid membership funds a free one for someone who can't afford it.
I've given this program away thousands of times. Some who walked in on the sponsorship got their lives back and came back to donate thousands as a thank you. It's not about the money. It's about you realizing you're worth investing in. And then paying it forward when you're ready.
Not ready to commit? Try it on your own first.
I've been pitched a hundred times by people promising the next miracle. I'm not asking you to buy anything yet. Take the guide I built over the last six years — the exact framework, the actual steps. If you can do it on your own, you don't need me.
Take it. Sit with it. Try it. If it works, keep going. If you hit a wall and realize the work goes deeper than you expected, come back. Both outcomes are wins.
Six steps. Six years of work. Yours, the moment you sign up.
The 6-Step Recovery Guide.
Built from 15,065+ rebuilds.
The exact steps. The framework that quiets the cravings without shame or pressure. Yours. Free. Forever.
- Clarity + Direction · The exact steps to escape the cycle.
- Accountability + Support · 2 weeks of follow-up to keep you moving.
- Proven Framework · What actually works to rewire the system underneath.
Two books. One body of work.
Six years of research, lived experience, and identity rebuilding pressed into 700+ combined pages. The Hella Healthy paperback drops today on the six-year anniversary. The book Bill Wilson was trying to write before he died. Finished, updated, and handed to you.
Beyond Sober
The program in your hands. The 6-week Beyond Sober program in interactive workbook form. Read it. Write in it. Follow along. Same teaching, paper format, your pace.
Get The Book
Hella Healthy
The biology of recovery. 500 pages. Standalone scientific work. The continuation of Bill Wilson's final decade of nutrition research. The science underneath every program in this ecosystem. Now included free with the Beyond Sober program.
International bestselling author of three books. Hella Healthy is the third.
What members actually said.
I tried quitting a hundred times. Nothing stuck. This was different. I finally feel free.
I was missing moments with my kids. Now I wake up proud. They have the mom they deserve.
From rock bottom to two years sober. Now I help others find their way. This isn't quitting. It's transformation.
Drinking was my identity. I told myself I'll always be this way. Beyond Sober made me realize I don't have to be.
On the outside I had it all together. On the inside I was drowning. Beyond Sober helped me rebuild my confidence, my business, and my life.
After a severe health crisis I had a choice. Keep drinking or fight for my life. Today, with over 1,300 days sober, I help others do the same.
AA was 1939.
Bill Wilson spent his last decade looking for the biology nobody finished.
We finished it.
Bill Wilson wrote AA's Big Book in 1939. The whole 12-step world is downstream of him. What most people don't know: he spent the last decade of his life looking for what was missing. He experimented with niacin. He worked with researchers on vitamin B-3 therapy. He saw people get clarity from nutrition that he had never seen from meetings alone. He died before he could publish the second half of the answer.
"I am sure that my discovery of niacin therapy was the most important contribution I have made to AA since the writing of the original program."
Beyond Sober is the identity work he was missing.
Hella Healthy is the biology he was researching.
Together, this is what recovery was supposed to evolve into.
If you've been told you're too much,
or not enough,
and never the right thing to fix it…
Dopamine doesn't fire the way it should. So you found something that made it fire. Alcohol wasn't the problem. It was the only solution your brain was offered.
Stuck in fight-or-flight. Burning through cortisol. Drinking wasn't weakness. It was your body trying to regulate what nobody taught it to regulate.
You did the hardest part. The depression, anxiety, exhaustion stayed. of you said this directly in the scan. This is exactly who Beyond Sober was built for.
From the outside it looks like it's working. Inside it's burning down. You came here because the script broke. The version of you alcohol was holding up was never the real one.
I'm not a doctor.
I'm not a therapist.
I'm the architect of the system you're standing in.
I started drinking at 8. Klonopin on the bus by 13. Suicidal at 14. Liver failure and cardiac arrest at 32. Diagnosed neurodivergent at 33, after I had already done the work without knowing what to call it.
I rebuilt my body from 142 pounds and a ruined liver to nine years sober and counting. Stage 4 cirrhosis is supposed to be terminal. It isn't.
I work alongside doctors, behavior specialists, and healers across every arena of recovery. I train the people who train others.
Direct access.
Real strategy.
The full spectrum.
If you want to work with me directly, this is the door. Coaching isn't for one type of person. Sometimes I work with someone for a year. Sometimes the entire family — moms supporting their kids, dads showing up for their families, partners doing the work alongside.
I work with you in the throes of your addiction if you need hospitalization. I work with you on the other end if you've already been through that and want a foundation strong enough that you never have to.
Coaching includes everything. Every program. Every book. Every community. My personal phone number. Marco Polo access. Direct text. Whatever you need to make sure you don't fall back.
What one survivor built in nine years.
International bestselling author. International speaker. Coach to coaches. Available for booking.
The ones that come into my DMs at 11pm.
You found this for a reason.
The post you read didn't lie. The reel you watched twice didn't lie. The version of you that's been trying to come home didn't lie.
You're not late. You're not too far gone. You're not the lost cause you've been telling yourself you are.
You're just one decision away from the part nobody hands you when you stop drinking.
I'll meet you on the other side.